Love

Sometimes you simply needed someone kind to sit with you while you dealt with things.

Gail Honeyman

In her 2017 debut novel, “Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine,” Scottish author Gail Honeyman introduced readers to Eleanor Oliphant, a socially awkward young woman whose personal journey involves confronting both her deep loneliness and her traumatic past. This quote by Eleanor beautifully underscores the crucial lesson she learns over the course of her self-discovery: the value of human connection and companionship. Through her character’s thoughts, Honeyman emphasizes the universal truth that even when others cannot solve our problems, their presence alone can be a source of great solace and comfort during life's most challenging moments.

Gail Honeyman
Gail Honeyman
Scottish writer (1972-present)
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Happiness

Never stay up on the barren heights of cleverness, but come down into the green valleys of silliness.

Ludwig Wittgenstein

Despite chairing the University of Cambridge philosophy department for eight years, Ludwig Wittgenstein was described by his biographer as a “reluctant professor.” He did not believe that philosophy should be approached like a job, and he often attempted to dissuade his students from pursuing academic careers. Indeed, Wittgenstein changed direction in his professional life numerous times. For a while, he lived in a wooden hut that he had built next to a Norwegian fjord; he later contemplated farm work in the Soviet Union. Deriving from a 1948 journal entry that Wittgenstein wrote at age 59, this bit of advice reminds us that the celebrated author was, unfailingly, young at heart. Wittgenstein was wary of anyone who tried to elevate themselves above others by sounding smart. Instead, he preferred the authenticity of those willing to laugh at themselves.

Ludwig Wittgenstein
Ludwig Wittgenstein
Austro-British philosopher (1889-1951)
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As Alice makes her journey through Wonderland in Lewis Carroll’s beloved 1865 children’s story “Alice's Adventures in Wonderland,” the young girl comes upon an unpleasant Duchess, described as having a sharp and pointy chin. To Alice’s discomfort, the Duchess rests her chin on the child’s shoulder and shares this bit of wisdom. If a bizarre old Duchess can uncover lessons and meaning in the topsy-turvy world of Wonderland, we’re sure to find them in our own lives, too, on this side of the looking glass.

Lewis Carroll
Lewis Carroll
English author, poet, and mathematician (1832-1898)
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Wisdom

Neither love nor terror makes one blind: indifference makes one blind.

James Baldwin

With more than 30 published works to his name, James Baldwin is considered one of the quintessential voices of the Black American community. In his fiction, memoirs, and poetry, he explored the effects of racism through both individual perspectives and social commentary. This quote comes from his 1974 novel “If Beale Street Could Talk,” which focuses on the love story between a Black couple after one of them is falsely convicted of a crime. Baldwin’s words encourage us to actively engage with the world around us, for we can only drive change if we first choose to take action.

James Baldwin
James Baldwin
Writer and civil rights activist (1924-1987)
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Motivation

For the things we have to learn before we can do, we learn by doing.

Aristotle

Aristotle was one of ancient Greece’s most brilliant minds, but the philosopher didn’t deal only in the theoretical. A student of Plato and teacher to Alexander the Great, Aristotle wrote widely on everything from politics to biology, and he believed true knowledge comes through action. This line, from his work “Nicomachean Ethics,” reflects his view that no amount of studying can replace hands-on experience. Mastering a skill or — perhaps more importantly — a way of life can’t be done by simply reading or thinking about it: A person becomes a carpenter by building, a musician by playing music. In our everyday lives, we become the people we want to be by actually doing the things we hope to learn.

Aristotle
Aristotle
Ancient Greek philosopher (384-322 BCE)
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Love

Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving.

bell hooks

Throughout her prolific career from the 1980s until her death in 2021, author, cultural critic, and feminist thinker bell hooks (stylized in lowercase) often explored personal identity, self-actualization, and the transformative power of love. This quote comes from her influential 2000 book “All About Love: New Visions,” in which she adds, “When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.” Emphasizing that authentic connection depends on knowing and valuing oneself — so that we can relate to others without using them to run from our own solitude — hooks reminds us that being comfortable in our own company makes it easier to build healthy relationships.

bell hooks
bell hooks
Author, activist, and cultural critic (1952-2021)
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Happiness

Intuition is a very powerful thing, more powerful than intellect.

Steve Jobs

We’re often told to go with our gut. Following that feeling is all about trusting our intuition, those instinctive feelings that occur to us without intellectual reasoning. Steve Jobs believed intuition is a powerful tool that guides important decisions and leads to innovative ideas. In his work at Apple and in his personal life, he prioritized intuition over intellect because of its ability to lead him to unexpected outcomes. Jobs said this approach never let him down, and encouraged us to trust our own instincts as a driving force for our personal and professional growth.

Steve Jobs
Steve Jobs
Entrepreneur and Apple co-founder (1955-2011)
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Musical virtuoso Miles Davis assembled some of history’s most venerable jazz ensembles. Unbeknownst to audiences, he could also mentor his fellow musicians midway through a world-famous trumpet solo. Pianist Herbie Hancock — a member of Davis’ Second Great Quintet — fondly recalled one such instance. During a 1960s concert in Stuttgart, Germany, Hancock played what he judged as a very pronounced wrong chord. Covering his ears, he feared he had “reduced that great night to rubble.” An innate improviser, Davis responded with a series of notes that made Hancock’s chord sound intentional. “He did what any jazz musician should always try to do, and that is to make anything that happens into something of value,” Hancock said. It reminds us that so-called missteps are often just what we need to blaze a new trail.

Miles Davis
Miles Davis
Jazz musician, bandleader, and composer (1926-1991)
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Wisdom

Nothing is absolute. Everything changes, everything moves, everything revolves, everything flies and goes away.

Frida Kahlo

Frida Kahlo, the iconic Mexican painter whose work bridged surrealism, modernism, and “Mexicanidad” in the early to mid-20th century, documented this reflection in her personal diary during the last decade of her turbulent life. Kahlo is best remembered for her striking self-portraits and her unflinching exploration of pain, identity, and resilience, and her words here capture her deep awareness of the impermanence of life, shaped by her years of illness, physical suffering, and emotional turmoil. This line represents both her resignation and acceptance that nothing in life, good or bad, remains fixed. Today, Kahlo’s insight resonates as a call to embrace change rather than resist it, reminding us that life’s constant flow is what allows for transformation and inspiration.

Frida Kahlo
Frida Kahlo
Mexican painter and self-portraitist (1907-1954)
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Motivation

The smallest deed is better than the grandest intention.

Anonymous

This oft-repeated quote reminds us that while our thoughts and aims may be noble, it is our actions that speak loudest. Though the source of this quote remains anonymous (despite having been attributed to everyone from John Burroughs to Oscar Wilde), it has endured for decades thanks to the fundamental truth of its message. No matter how lofty our plans may be, they make little impact if we don’t eventually act on them.

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