Love

Forgiveness … is a gift of high value. Yet its cost is nothing.

Betty Smith

Those who have the least are often the best qualified to determine what means the most. Betty Smith, a Williamsburg native and longtime tenement resident, reflected on her upbringing in her 1943 semi-autobiographical bestseller “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.” Smith’s novel explores the importance of tenacity and finding happiness amid hardship. This particular quote is spoken by Mary Rommely, the grandmother of Francie, the novel’s protagonist, as she discusses Francie’s aunts, who aren’t on speaking terms with one another. Mary’s comments offer a firm reminder that something as “simple” and “uncostly” as choosing to forgive someone else can yield a value that outweighs any material or financial prosperity. Whether it’s shown to a loved one, a stranger, or even oneself, forgiveness is a powerful tool at our disposal.

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Hope

We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.

Seneca

A prominent Roman philosopher and a notable figure in Stoicism, Seneca recognized the impact our thoughts have on our actions and well-being. The Stoics believed that genuine knowledge is rooted in perception, so they advocated against dwelling on negative possibilities and allowing the imagination to manifest anxieties. Through willpower and rational interpretation, Seneca believed individuals and societies could shift their perspectives away from the what-ifs to keep moving forward.

Seneca
Seneca
Ancient Roman philosopher (c. 4 BCE-65 CE)
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Wisdom

I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention… To be yourself. To cut yourself out of stone.

Henry Rollins

To iconic punk artist Henry Rollins, being stagnant and unimaginative is among the biggest transgressions one can make in life. From his time as the frontman for the pioneering hard-core band Black Flag, to his work as a vocal advocate for social change, Rollins is constantly challenging himself and others to break the mold. As a musician, poet, radio host, and actor, he is known for his passion, intensity, and refusal to stop creating. With these words from his 1997 collection of writing, “The Portable Henry Rollins,” Rollins challenges us to travel down life’s unbeaten paths, do things our own way, and embrace the qualities that make us unique.

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Motivation

Art is about finding creativity in the gutter next to you.

Olafur Eliasson

Danish artist Olafur Eliasson’s sculptures often draw on natural elements, inspired by the unique Scandinavian landscapes of his childhood. In one of his most famous installations (2014-2018), Eliasson teamed up with geologist Minik Rosing to display fragments of an Arctic iceberg in European cities in order to highlight the climate crisis. His art is very much a product of his surroundings — the ordinary turned extraordinary. Here, Eliasson advises us that our next idea may come from somewhere unexpected; all we have to do is pay attention.
Olafur Eliasson
Olafur Eliasson
Icelandic Danish artist (1967-present)
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Happiness

You make your life meaningful by applying meaning to it.

Sheila Heti

Sheila Heti is known for her introspective and experimental storytelling, especially in works such as “Motherhood,” the critically acclaimed, semi-autobiographical novel that explores her decision on whether or not to have children. This quote echoes her writing’s broader themes of self-exploration and purpose. Taken from an interview with author Natasha Lunn in Lunn’s book “Conversations on Love,” Heti suggests the fabled “meaning of life” to be a nuanced concept — as she puts it, “[Life is] not just inevitably meaningful as a result of the choices you’ve made.” Much like her books challenge traditional narratives, Heti’s quote upends the idea that meaning is inherent — we must instead each create it for ourselves.

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Love

In all our searching, the only thing we’ve found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other.

Carl Sagan

Carl Sagan was one of the greatest science communicators of the last century. A planetary scientist and astrophysicist, he had a gift for explaining complex scientific concepts to the general public. He was also acutely aware of humanity’s place in the universe. It was Sagan who suggested to NASA that the Voyager 1 space probe should turn its camera around to snap one last photo of Earth before it sped away into interstellar space, from a distance of 3.7 billion miles away. The resulting photo, which shows the Earth as a tiny speck against the vastness of space, is known as the “Pale Blue Dot.” The image had little scientific value, but its significance was profound: It gave humans a perspective of our world out there in the vast emptiness — and us, as Sagan put it, as “momentary masters of a fraction of a dot.” 

Carl Sagan
Carl Sagan
Astronomer and science communicator (1934-1996)
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Hope

All experience is great providing you live through it.

Alice Neel

Alice Neel worked tirelessly to redefine gender norms through her visual art, enduring both criticism and being overlooked for decades before finally achieving recognition as a feminist icon. Her figurative works depicting realistic female subjects defied the male gaze that had long objectified women in art. These words are reflective of Neel’s own rise to the top, as she strictly adhered to her often unpopular artistic convictions en route to becoming one of the 20th century’s greatest portrait artists. The quote is a reminder that even when things seem bleak, patience and faith pay off in the end, and any experience that doesn’t break us is a chance to learn.

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Wisdom

I find the great thing in this world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving.

Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.

Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr. was a prominent American physician, poet, and writer of prose, perhaps best known for his “Breakfast-Table” series of essays, originally published in “The Atlantic Monthly” in 1857 and later collectively printed under the title “The Autocrat of the Breakfast-Table.” The essays are a series of what the Smithsonian Libraries describes as “dramedy vignettes,” written as conversations between an unnamed author and residents of a New England boarding house. The topics range widely, encompassing everything from human nature to society, religion, and the art of conversation itself, with the tone shifting from the philosophical to the comedic. This quote from the series has echoes of the popular anonymous proverb, “Life is a journey, not a destination.” Both remind us that progress — and perhaps even happiness — isn’t necessarily about where we are, but where we’re headed and the steps we take to get there. 

Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.
Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.
Physician and poet (1809-1894)
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Motivation

The world is like a Mask dancing. If you want to see it well, you do not stand in one place.

Chinua Achebe

In the tradition of the Igbo people, an ethnic group in southern Nigeria, the mask, or masquerade, is a sacred ritual involving theater, dance, and costumes, representing spiritual and tribal elements of the culture. Nigerian author Chinua Achebe references this Igbo tradition in his 1988 book “Arrow of God,” emphasizing that if we want to experience all of the beautiful dynamics the world has to offer, we have to dance along with it.
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Love

I would rather walk with a friend in the dark than walk alone in the light.

Helen Keller

Helen Keller, born in 1880, was only 19 months old when she lost both her sight and her hearing. She likened her early years to being “at sea in a dense fog,” but everything changed on March 5, 1887, when Anne Sullivan arrived at her door. Sullivan, who was herself partially blind, was 20 years old when she was hired to teach Keller language, including reading and writing. The two women became lifelong friends and companions. With Sullivan at her side, Keller went on to write 14 books and hundreds of essays. She toured the world and became an acclaimed speaker, advocating for disability rights and many other causes throughout her life.

Helen Keller
Helen Keller
Author, educator, and activist (1880-1968)
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