Happiness

The only way to find permanent joy is by embracing the fact that nothing is permanent.

Martha Beck

After being born and raised in the Mormon faith, sociologist, bestselling author, and life coach Martha Beck eventually left the church. She now embraces a personal philosophy that blends the purposeful “doing” of Western religion with the quiet “being” of Eastern spiritual traditions. In her 2001 book “Finding Your Own North Star,” Beck helps readers leave behind an unfulfilling life and step into one with purpose — your “right” life, as Beck puts it. In the process, she evokes a core tenet of Buddhism: anicca, aka the doctrine of impermanence. By learning to go with the flow of life’s constant changes, we can stop trying to harness control we’ve never really had and instead embrace an untouchable joy that doesn’t depend on our circumstances.

Martha Beck
Martha Beck
Sociologist and author (1962-present)
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Hope

There are no wrong turnings. Only paths we had not known we were meant to walk.

Guy Gavriel Kay

A defining feature of fantasy author Guy Gavriel Kay’s novels is his tendency to set them in fictional locales that resemble real places, rather than wholly fabricated fantasy worlds such as J.R.R. Tolkien’s Middle-earth. For example, “A Song for Arbonne” is set in an analogue of medieval Provence, France, and “The Sarantine Mosaic” takes place in a version of sixth-century Byzantium with a fantastical twist. In his epic 1990 novel “Tigana,” set in a world resembling Renaissance Italy, a group of rebels conspire to overthrow occupying forces and reclaim their homeland. While walking the winding darkened hallways of an ancient castle, Devin, one of the novel’s protagonists, remembers something he had once been told: “There are no wrong turnings. Only paths we had not known we were meant to walk.” It’s a reminder to journey on even when the path seems lost — and that other ways are sure to open up to us as long as we keep the faith.

Guy Gavriel Kay
Guy Gavriel Kay
Canadian fantasy author (1954-present)
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Wisdom

I will take with me the emptiness of my hands. What you do not have you find everywhere.

W.S. Merwin

Two-time U.S. Poet Laureate W.S. Merwin’s 1967 book of poetry “The Lice” is one of his most beloved bodies of work. This quote from one of the book’s poems, “Provision,” offers up a concept from Merwin’s Buddhist beliefs: absence becoming presence. In this philosophy, the lack of one thing enables the existence of another; to actively miss something creates a new metaphysical realm in which they can exist. Merwin’s poem reminds us not to be discouraged by what we lack: Instead, we should look for what it can reveal about the present.

W.S. Merwin
W.S. Merwin
Poet (1927-2019)
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Motivation

You have to be brave with your life so that others can be brave with theirs.

Katherine Center

Katherine Center is a “New York Times” bestselling author known for emotionally compelling novels that explore themes of love, resilience, and personal growth. Her books, including “How To Walk Away” and “Things You Save in a Fire,” have earned acclaim for their heartfelt storytelling and strong, relatable characters. The quote above comes from a collection of reflections titled “What I Would Tell Her (If I Knew What To Say).” Here, Center reflects on the importance of living courageously, especially when people are watching. Her message speaks to the idea that bravery can be contagious — when we choose to face our fears and lead authentic lives, we actively encourage others to find their own strength. It’s a reminder that our personal choices can serve as quiet but powerful inspiration, offering those around us the permission and motivation to be courageous in their own lives, even if we don’t realize it.

Katherine Center
Katherine Center
Author (1972-present)
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Oprah Winfrey’s life has certainly been shaped by her achievements, but it’s also been shaped by adversity, something that’s informed her signature empathy. This quote from an interview with “CBS Mornings” asserts that shame should not define a person’s life. Looking beyond mistakes and labels helps us understand others and makes room for growth and grace. Winfrey’s quote illustrates her deep-rooted compassion, something we should extend not only to others, but to ourselves as well.

Oprah Winfrey
Oprah Winfrey
TV host, producer, and actress (1954-present)
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Hope

I believe in some blending of hope and sunshine sweetening the worst lots.

Charlotte Brontë

Charlotte Brontë’s semi-autobiographical novel “Villette” (1853) is laden with themes of loneliness and grief. As its protagonist Lucy Snowe navigates personal hardships — the loss of family and friends, isolation in a new place, and heartbreak — she finds herself tempted to despair. Like Snowe, Brontë experienced her own familial losses and arduous experiences. And while this introspective and emotionally raw novel doesn’t deliver an idealized happy ending, it offers its own kind of resolve: a bittersweet recognition that even the darkest times are often illuminated by glimpses of light, both those we hold inside ourselves and those the world shows us if we remain open to seeing them.

Charlotte Brontë
Charlotte Brontë
Author and poet (1816-1855)
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Wisdom

In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.

Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde was a popular playwright in London in the 1890s, and his unapologetically flamboyant personality and razor-sharp wit have ensured his enduring legacy. His first hit play, “Lady Windermere’s Fan,” is an upper-class comedy that tells the story of a wife who suspects her husband of having an affair. The play made Wilde rich and also gave us some of his most famous lines, including the quote above, spoken by the minor character Mr. Dumby. When Lord Darlington reveals his unrequited love for Lady Windermere, Dumby congratulates him, arguing there are only two tragedies in the world: “One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. The last is much the worst, the last is a real tragedy!” In other words, striving for a goal and failing can be difficult, but it can ultimately prove to be a more valuable experience, as the journey of pursuing a much-desired objective can sometimes be more fulfilling and transformative than the end result.

Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde
Irish poet and playwright (1854-1900)
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Motivation

I’ll tell you what freedom is to me: no fear.

Nina Simone

As a Black woman raised in segregated North Carolina, Nina Simone was no stranger to injustice. She went on to become an award-winning singer and pianist, and also fought for civil rights throughout her life. She muses on the concept of freedom in the 1970 documentary “Nina: A Historical Perspective.” When asked how she defines “free,” she calls it “a feeling.” She points out how hard it is to put it into words, before settling on a beautiful, simple definition: “no fear.”

Nina Simone
Nina Simone
Singer and civil rights activist (1933-2003)
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Happiness

It’s been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.

Lucy Maud Montgomery

Lucy Maud Montgomery’s 1908 novel “Anne of Green Gables” follows the life of a young girl who has ample reason to be pessimistic, yet she continually finds ways not to be. After growing up in an orphanage, Anne is adopted by a pair of siblings who had intended to adopt a young boy to help out on their farm. In the book’s fifth chapter, one of the siblings is driving Anne back to the orphanage when the young girl muses on her decision to focus on the drive’s pleasantries, such as blossoming wild roses, instead of her gloomy destination. Anne’s persistent optimism is a helpful reminder that we have more control over how our reality affects us than we may think. Though it takes some concerted effort, we have the choice to focus more on what lifts our spirits than what causes distress.

Lucy Maud Montgomery
Lucy Maud Montgomery
Canadian author (1874-1942)
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Love

When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep.

Kahlil Gibran

Lebanese writer Kahlil Gibran is remembered for his 1923 work “The Prophet,” a collection of fables in which a prophet speaking to a group of people offers wisdom on subjects including marriage, beauty, death, and more. When a seer of the city asks him to speak about love, the prophet responds with these words. His advice reminds us that cultivating love takes time and effort. Love well earned, Gibran seems to say, is love that will last.

Kahlil Gibran
Kahlil Gibran
Lebanese American writer (1883-1931)
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