Few writers were more influential during the 19th century than Thomas Carlyle; the Scotsman’s essays, histories, and other works had a profound effect on Victorian literature and beyond. In 1855, four years after Carlyle’s death, Mary Ann Evans, better known by her pen name George Eliot, wrote that “there has hardly been an English book written for the last ten or twelve years that would not have been different if Carlyle had not lived.” Charles Darwin, meanwhile, called Carlyle “the most worth listening to, of any man I know.” The sheer scope of Carlyle’s literary endeavors — including his three-volume “French Revolution” and his epic six-volume “History of Frederick the Great” — may well have appeared impossible to lesser writers. Carlyle’s love of literature, however, seemingly made no task too great, as he once called the art of writing “the most miraculous of all things man has devised.” 

Thomas Carlyle
Thomas Carlyle
Scottish essayist, historian, and philosopher (1795-1881)
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Love

The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.

Esther Perel

Esther Perel is one of America’s leading couples therapists, known for her two bestselling books on desire in partnerships and the popular podcast “Where Should We Begin?” which documents her real counseling sessions. Perel’s curiosity about how relationships are evolving in a rapidly changing world has led to several viral TED Talks, and her books have been translated into 25 languages. She reminds us here that our day-to-day happiness relies heavily on the people we surround ourselves with, and how much time and effort we invest in those connections.

Esther Perel
Esther Perel
Psychotherapist and author (1958-present)
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Patience is a virtue, or so goes the common proverbial phrase. Benjamin Franklin echoed this sentiment in his highly popular yearly publication “Poor Richard's Almanack,” advising that “he that can have patience can have what he will.” But considering Franklin’s multitude of accomplishments, it's surprising he had any time for patience at all. He was a polymath, skilled and knowledgeable in a wide variety of subjects, and one of the greatest intellectuals of his day. He was a successful writer, statesman, scientist, diplomat, printer, and political philosopher. He invented the lightning rod, the Franklin stove, bifocal glasses, and the flexible urinary catheter. And as if that weren’t enough, he was also one of America’s Founding Fathers and signed both the Declaration of Independence and the U.S. Constitution. He may well have been patient, but Franklin certainly didn’t waste any time. 

Benjamin Franklin
Benjamin Franklin
U.S. founding father (1706-1790)
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Hope

Hope is like a road in the country; there was never a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence.

Lin Yutang

The work of Chinese author and scholar Lin Yutang often acted as a cultural bridge in the early 20th century. He founded several Western-style satire magazines in Chinese, and in 1935 topped the “New York Times” bestseller list with “My Country and My People,” his English-language book on China. During the Sino-Japanese war in the 1930s, Lin also wrote social and political columns calling for international aid on behalf of the Chinese people. His words above match his trailblazing career and remind us that not every road is laid out for us: We have to believe we can move forward together before taking the first step.

Lin Yutang
Lin Yutang
Chinese writer, linguist, and inventor (1895-1976)
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Happiness

The difference between misery and happiness depends on what we do with our attention.

Sharon Salzberg

Sharon Salzberg is a spiritual leader and meditation teacher who helped introduce Buddhist practices into Western culture in the 1970s. After a tumultuous childhood, Salzberg discovered meditation as a way to temper the chaos in her life. Her interest led her first to India for years of study, and then back to the U.S., where she co-founded the Insight Meditation Society. This quote comes from Salzberg’s book “Lovingkindness,” which encourages self-compassion as the first step to changing our perspective. We have more control over our outlook than we think, if we can learn to choose where to focus our energy.

Sharon Salzberg
Sharon Salzberg
Author and meditation pioneer (1952-present)
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Motivation

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

Walt Disney

Walt Disney is known for many things: being a pioneer of animated films, creating beloved cartoon characters such as Mickey Mouse, and opening one of the best-known theme parks in the world — to name just a few. While it’s clear that none of these things could have been achieved by someone who rested on their laurels, it’s often understated just how much tenacity Disney had. Despite humble beginnings and several failures along the way, the artist and impresario rarely rested, and even worked on building Walt Disney World right up until his death in 1966, proving that the secret to success is to indeed stop talking, and start doing.

Walt Disney
Walt Disney
Animator and entrepreneur (1901-1966)
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Love

You can only understand people if you feel them in yourself.

John Steinbeck

John Steinbeck’s work didn’t shy away from untangling the intricacies of human nature. He often evoked empathy, and in this quote, from his 1952 novel “East of Eden,” he outright explains how to give — and hopefully receive — empathy and compassion. These emotions demonstrate the capacity to see the world through someone else’s eyes and experiences, and in turn foster understanding and connection. Only by walking a mile in someone’s shoes, as the saying goes, can we truly understand them.

John Steinbeck
John Steinbeck
Nobel and Pulitzer Prize-winning writer (1902-1968)
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Wisdom

Everything in nature invites us constantly to be what we are.

Gretel Ehrlich

In the 1970s, travel writer and poet Gretel Ehrlich spent several years living in rural Wyoming following the death of the man she loved. Drawn to the rugged landscape and its equally resilient people, she compiled the essay collection “The Solace of Open Spaces” about her time there. “I came here four years ago,” she wrote. “I had not planned to stay, but I couldn’t make myself leave.” In this quote from her essay “On Water,” Ehrlich contemplates the ebbs and flows of nature and the capriciousness of life. Comparing the human experience to a river that weightlessly carries both death and life, she wrote, “We can drown in it or else stay buoyant, quench our thirst, stay alive.”

Gretel Ehrlich
Gretel Ehrlich
Travel writer, poet, and essayist (1946-present)
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One of the most influential modern intellectuals, German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche first penned this sentiment in 1889. It has since undergone numerous and varied translations into English, but the core idea remains consistent in every iteration. Having a strong purpose in life gives us a reason to continue on through adversity and inspires us to find a way past any obstacles that may present themselves.

Friedrich Nietzsche
Friedrich Nietzsche
German philosopher and cultural critic (1844–1900)
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Happiness

Life loves to be taken by the lapel and told: “I'm with you kid. Let's go.”

Maya Angelou

Writer Maya Angelou is best known for her heartrending 1969 memoir “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings,” which describes a childhood that was unsteady and often traumatic, including a five-year period where she became mute after an assault. But she blossomed in young adulthood, discovering a love for literature and writing. Angelou was the first Black woman to drive a San Francisco streetcar, and tried out careers in singing and acting before becoming a writer. Her remarkable life experiences stand as a reminder that bold action makes our lives fuller and more interesting —  as long as we continue to embrace what’s possible.

Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou
Poet, author, and civil rights activist (1928-2014)
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