Motivation

The more I want to get something done, the less I call it work.

Richard Bach

Most of us feel differently about the things we need to do versus the things we want to do, drawing a hard line between work and leisure. In this quote, author Richard Bach attempts to blur that line. In his 1977 book “Illusions,” Bach suggests a subtle but powerful trick of mind over matter when it comes to work, motivating ourselves from a place of genuine interest or purpose. The tasks may still not be fun, but if the effort feels driven from within rather than imposed by external forces, that shift in perspective could make all the difference.

Richard Bach
Richard Bach
Author and pilot (1936-present)
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Love

All that you’ve loved is all you own.

Tom Waits

Ranked history’s 55th greatest songwriter by “Rolling Stone,” Tom Waits has penned tracks for The Eagles, Bruce Springsteen, and Rod Stewart, plus his own 17 albums. Years before he became a Rock & Roll Hall of Famer, Waits threaded this line into “Take It With Me,” a ballad from his 1999 album “Mule Variations.” Accompanied by a soft piano melody, he reminds listeners that our interactions with material goods are fleeting — what defines us are the experiences we collect. To Waits, the fondness we form for people and places stays etched in our souls forever.
Tom Waits
Tom Waits
Musician and actor (1949-present)
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Josiah Gilbert Holland was an American physician turned poet and novelist in the 19th century. This quote is a welcome reminder that when we overthink things, we can sometimes lose sight of how we truly feel about something, or someone. It suggests that in certain circumstances, our emotions can be trusted above reason. Holland's insight that love can make sense of the illogical is a reality many people have experienced yet cannot explain — and maybe that in itself proves his point.

Josiah Gilbert Holland
Josiah Gilbert Holland
Novelist, essayist, and poet (1819-1881)
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Hope

Love isn't something that weak people do. Being a romantic takes a hell of a lot of hope.

Phoebe Waller-Bridge

Identifying as a hopeless romantic can often be seen as naive or even weak, but as Phoebe Waller-Bridge sees it, love is an act of bravery. The actress and screenwriter gives this line to the character of the priest in her TV series “Fleabag.” Though the priest’s life is driven by restraint and obligation, he delivers this line in a conflicted and vulnerable speech at a wedding. Love, as he puts it, isn’t always easy; it’s messy and almost certain to cause some hurt and heartbreak. But, he adds, “When you find somebody that you love, it feels like hope.”

Phoebe Waller-Bridge
Phoebe Waller-Bridge
English actress, writer, and producer (1985-present)
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Friedrich Nietzsche is typically associated with intellectual gravitas, but this quote sounds downright playful. It isn’t just the physical act of dancing being described here so much as the German philosopher’s broader view that life is what we make of it. Alongside vitality, we should strive for the flexibility and the courage to embrace life even in the face of uncertainties. A day without that “dance,” Nietzsche suggests in his novel “Thus Spoke Zarathustra,” is a kind of loss. He goes on to say, “And let each truth be false to us which was not greeted by one laugh!”

Friedrich Nietzsche
Friedrich Nietzsche
German philosopher and cultural critic (1844–1900)
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Motivation

A talent grows by being used, and withers if it is not used.

May Sarton

May Sarton was a prolific writer whose body of work includes 19 novels and 17 books of poetry. Her most popular and enduring writing, however, is found in her journals and memoirs, which includePlant Dreaming Deep,” “Journal of a Solitude,” and “The House by the Sea.” The latter, written after Sarton moved from New Hampshire to the coast of Maine in 1973, is a profoundly personal account of solitude, nature, and the creative process. In it, Sarton compares talent to a plant, writing that “it may simply wither if it is not given enough food, sun, tender care. And to give it those things means working at it every day.”

May Sarton
May Sarton
Belgian-American novelist (1912-1995)
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Love

Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness.

Richard Bach

Author Richard Bach wrote several bestselling books in the 1970s, many of which were semi-autobiographical and pulled from his own career as an aviator and Navy pilot. While most of his stories center on the experience of flying, with this quote Bach speaks to us about friendship and love, and the power of giving. He notes that a gift from a friend is more than the object being gifted: The thought behind it is an expression of love, because it’s a genuine wish for you to be happy.

Richard Bach
Richard Bach
Author and pilot (1936-present)
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Wisdom

All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.

Martin Buber

When we set out on life’s journeys, we assume our plans and preparations will keep us firmly on course. But we are often blindsided by the twists and turns that the road takes, and we hardly ever end up where we expected. This observation comes from Martin Buber, a prominent German Jewish philosopher, educator, and political activist in the first half of the 20th century. He suggests that embracing these detours for the hidden benefits they bring is a critical part of learning, growing, and enjoying life.

Martin Buber
Martin Buber
Austrian-Israeli philosopher (1878-1965)
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To Taika Waititi, directing, writing, and acting aren’t just jobs, but tools for his true profession: being creative. The New Zealander describes his artistic process as neverending, because every work elicits a conversation with his audience. In an interview with “The Talks,” published the day after Waititi won the 2020 Best Adapted Screenplay Oscar for “Jojo Rabbit,” he revealed the importance of experimentation. Once a plan is in place, it’s time to consider fresh perspectives. There are no limits to where your imagination — or other people’s insights — can take you.
Taika Waititi
Taika Waititi
New Zealand filmmaker and actor (1975-present)
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Happiness

I feel that we're all lighthouses, and my job is to shine my light as brightly as I can to the darkness.

Jim Carrey

Jim Carrey’s career began in 1977 when he made his first stand-up comedy appearance at the age of 15. After he found TV stardom on the sketch comedy "In Living Color," global fame came in 1994, a breakthrough year in which he starred in not one but three smash films: “Ace Ventura: Pet Detective,” “The Mask,” and “Dumb and Dumber.” His unique blend of riotous slapstick and funny faces made him a beloved household name, but he also showed real acting chops in movies such as “The Truman Show,” “Man on the Moon,” and “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.” Whether he’s playing the Grinch or God, Carrey has always sought to bring his unique light to the performance. “I'm going to do whatever I can to bring to the world something creative, something challenging, something inventive,” he told the “L.A. Times.” “And whenever possible, when pain happens, when confusion happens, when disillusionment happens, I turn it into something.”  

Jim Carrey
Jim Carrey
Actor (1962-present)
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