Oprah Winfrey’s life has certainly been shaped by her achievements, but it’s also been shaped by adversity, something that’s informed her signature empathy. This quote from an interview with “CBS Mornings” asserts that shame should not define a person’s life. Looking beyond mistakes and labels helps us understand others and makes room for growth and grace. Winfrey’s quote illustrates her deep-rooted compassion, something we should extend not only to others, but to ourselves as well.

Oprah Winfrey
Oprah Winfrey
TV host, producer, and actress (1954-present)
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Motivation

I’ll tell you what freedom is to me: no fear.

Nina Simone

As a Black woman raised in segregated North Carolina, Nina Simone was no stranger to injustice. She went on to become an award-winning singer and pianist, and also fought for civil rights throughout her life. She muses on the concept of freedom in the 1970 documentary “Nina: A Historical Perspective.” When asked how she defines “free,” she calls it “a feeling.” She points out how hard it is to put it into words, before settling on a beautiful, simple definition: “no fear.”

Nina Simone
Nina Simone
Singer and civil rights activist (1933-2003)
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Happiness

It’s been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.

Lucy Maud Montgomery

Lucy Maud Montgomery’s 1908 novel “Anne of Green Gables” follows the life of a young girl who has ample reason to be pessimistic, yet she continually finds ways not to be. After growing up in an orphanage, Anne is adopted by a pair of siblings who had intended to adopt a young boy to help out on their farm. In the book’s fifth chapter, one of the siblings is driving Anne back to the orphanage when the young girl muses on her decision to focus on the drive’s pleasantries, such as blossoming wild roses, instead of her gloomy destination. Anne’s persistent optimism is a helpful reminder that we have more control over how our reality affects us than we may think. Though it takes some concerted effort, we have the choice to focus more on what lifts our spirits than what causes distress.

Lucy Maud Montgomery
Lucy Maud Montgomery
Canadian author (1874-1942)
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Love

When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep.

Kahlil Gibran

Lebanese writer Kahlil Gibran is remembered for his 1923 work “The Prophet,” a collection of fables in which a prophet speaking to a group of people offers wisdom on subjects including marriage, beauty, death, and more. When a seer of the city asks him to speak about love, the prophet responds with these words. His advice reminds us that cultivating love takes time and effort. Love well earned, Gibran seems to say, is love that will last.

Kahlil Gibran
Kahlil Gibran
Lebanese American writer (1883-1931)
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Wisdom

A novel worth reading is an education of the heart.

Susan Sontag

While interviewing Susan Sontag for “The Paris Review” in 1995, Edward Hirsch asked the writer and activist whether it was old-fashioned to think that the purpose of literature is to educate us about life. Sontag unequivocally confirmed that novels enlighten us. She went on to say, “[Novels enlarge] your sense of human possibility, of what human nature is, of what happens in the world.” When we read a story, we experience, on an intellectual and emotional level, the successes and failures of the characters — and we learn empathy and understanding from their stories.
Susan Sontag
Susan Sontag
Writer and cultural critic (1933-2004)
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Motivation

Courage is more exhilarating than fear and in the long run it is easier.

Eleanor Roosevelt

During her tenure as First Lady from 1933 to 1945, Eleanor Roosevelt redefined the nation’s idea of how the president’s wife should pass her time. She called weekly press conferences with women journalists, personally wrote a nationally syndicated newspaper column sharing her thoughts on the issues of the time, fought for civil rights, and sought to help refugees in the midst of World War II. In a time when wives, especially political wives, were meant to be quiet supporters of their husbands, she was a bold pioneer, leading by example to show all the good that women can do in the world.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
Humanitarian and former U.S. first lady (1884-1962)
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Chilean author Isabel Allende is one of the most widely read Spanish-language authors in the world, with a style that combines magical realism, personal experience, and historic events. She began her writing career translating Barbara Cartland novels into Spanish, while surreptitiously adding a few changes to make the female characters more intelligent (a practice that later got her fired). She was a TV personality for a while, wrote for a feminist magazine, worked for the United Nations, and fled Chile to Venezuela following dictator Augusto Pinochet’s coup. She later moved to California, where she still lives and writes today. To say that she was well received in the U.S. would be an understatement: In 2014, Allende was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by Barack Obama. 

Isabel Allende
Isabel Allende
Chilean American writer (1942-present)
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Happiness

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

Mahatma Gandhi

As a civil rights activist and independence leader, Mahatma Gandhi’s actions made an enormous impact on society. And to look at his remarkable life, it’s clear that those actions were in alignment with his beliefs and teachings. To Gandhi, the path to happiness was not fame or fortune, but something much more simple and potentially even more difficult: living an honest and authentic life.

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Mahatma Gandhi
Indian independence leader (1869-1948)
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Hope

After the burning the soil is richer, and new things can grow. People are like that, too.

Celeste Ng

Celeste Ng’s bestselling book "Little Fires Everywhere" uses fire, both literal and figurative, as a symbol for loss and potential fresh starts throughout its explorations of identity. In the same way fire can increase soil fertility, people can emerge stronger and more capable, and with a revitalized sense of self, after enduring life's trials and challenges. Adversity is often a catalyst for personal transformation and renewal, not unlike the natural world’s ability to regenerate and flourish after destruction.

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Austrian graphic designer Stefan Sagmeister is known for the album covers he has masterminded for artists such as the Rolling Stones and Lou Reed. Sagmeister has said he became a designer after failing as a musician and journalist: That honesty led him to a Fulbright Scholarship at the Pratt Institute in New York City and a 2005 Grammy Award for art direction. His words encourage us to be candid about our motivations and goals, because authenticity can be the best compass to happiness.

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