Wisdom

It's more difficult to be simple, and it's easier to be more complicated.

Black Francis

When asked about his creative songwriting process in a 2015 interview, Black Francis, the front man for the indie rock band the Pixies, mused about how his music has become more complex over time. He observed that children often notice simple details that adults can miss, because young people’s minds aren't bogged down with the complications of life. There is beauty in simplicity, but finding it often gets harder over time. “When you get older, you stop seeing things,” Francis reflected. “As your brain becomes more full of things and full of more music, it becomes harder to see something, to write something simple.”

Black Francis
Black Francis
Musician (1965-present)
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Phoebe Waller-Bridge has built a career out of creating characters who say and do the unexpected. Her writing eschews stereotypes and presses into uncomfortable narrative territory with profound, often hilarious results. An actor since 2008, she gained fame as the creator, writer, and star of the BBC’s shocking and riotously funny sitcom “Fleabag” (2016-2019). She has since made a career for herself writing transgressive women, including those featured in the hit AMC spy thriller "Killing Eve" (2018-2022). When asked in a 2018 “Guardian” interview if she’s always been able to say the unsayable, she replied: “Yes. As long as it feels truthful… it is always exciting.”

Phoebe Waller-Bridge
Phoebe Waller-Bridge
English actress, writer, and producer (1985-present)
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Love

Love comes… when you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.

Joyce Brothers

We’re often told that love comes when we least expect it, but the truth is, love comes when we are completely open. As humans, we crave more than anything to be fully known and loved for who we are, but if we conceal the imperfect parts of ourselves or keep our guard up for fear of getting hurt, we can never be wholly understood by the people in our lives. True emotional vulnerability is one of the most difficult things to achieve in life, but if we’re willing to take the risk, we’re rewarded with love, community, and the joy of finding kindred spirits in the world.

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Hope

Often when you think you’re at the end of something, you’re at the beginning of something else.

Fred Rogers

Mister Rogers’ wisdom always felt like a comforting, validating hug. In this quote — similar to the familiar phrase “when one door closes, another opens” — he ruminates on beginnings and endings. When it feels like one chapter or phase of life is coming to a close, it’s often an indication that a new chapter is about to unfold. Instead of fixating on finality, we should view endings as opportunities for fresh beginnings, new experiences, growth, and discovery. Rogers’ words serve as an optimistic reminder to approach life’s transitions with hope and openness, recognizing that each ending carries within it the seeds of a new beginning.

Fred Rogers
Fred Rogers
Television host (1928-2003)
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Wisdom

The willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life is the source from which self-respect springs.

Joan Didion

In her 1961 essay "On Self-Respect," writer and cultural icon Joan Didion laid out one of the most essential truths about self-love. When we are accountable for our words and actions — and act with integrity even in the face of adversity — we are far more likely to find pride, confidence, and respect for ourselves. Taking responsibility is not always easy, but it’s a worthy pursuit. As Didion wrote, “people with self-respect exhibit a certain toughness, a kind of moral nerve; they display what was once called character.”

Joan Didion
Joan Didion
Writer and journalist (1934-2021)
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Motivation

Trifles make perfection, and perfection is no trifle.

Michelangelo

This proverb, which speaks to the importance of patience, diligence, and integrity, originated with the Renaissance master Michelangelo. According to legend, a friend paid a visit to Michelangelo’s studio, where there was a statue in progress. The renowned sculptor and painter explained that he had only made very small adjustments to the work since the last time the man visited. “But these are just trifles,” said the man. Yet to the artist, the seemingly minuscule edits were the necessary steps in achieving greatness.

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Happiness

You can't learn style. Style, I think, is in your DNA.

Iris Apfel

Iris Apfel is a 100-year-old fashion icon who dresses herself in a vibrant collage of colors and textures. NYC's Costume Institute at the Metropolitan Museum of Art once exhibited her clothes and accessories, and Apfel has been called upon to design everything from makeup to kitchen appliances. Her childhood obsession with fabric scraps led Apfel and her late husband, Carl, to found the textile company Old World Weavers, which they ran from 1950 to 1992. The company produced its own versions of exotic textiles that the couple spotted abroad, resulting in work that decorated the White House during nine consecutive administrations. Speaking to “The Talks” in 2016, Apfel discouraged chasing trends. If you present yourself to the world in a way that feels authentic, it breeds a confidence that will take you far.
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Iris Apfel
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A renowned psychoanalyst and feminist activist, Clarissa Pinkola Estés is also a powerful public speaker and author. Her bestselling book "Women Who Run With the Wolves" explores the wild and instinctual nature of women. In her talks and her writing, Estés helps women reclaim their power and creativity. With this quote, she reminds us that failure in our endeavors can often be more instructive than success, as long as we’re willing to listen.

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Wisdom

The earth is the mother of all people, and all people should have equal rights upon it.

Chief Joseph

In 1879, Chief Joseph of the Nez Percé, who was known to his own people as In-mut-too-yah-lat-lat (Thunder-Traveling-Over-the-Mountains), traveled to Washington, D.C., to negotiate the return of his homeland, a swath of North America that spanned from the Bitterroot Mountains of western Montana to the Wallowas of eastern Oregon. While he was visiting, he granted an interview to reporters and began by saying, “My friends, I have been asked to show you my heart.” What followed was a passionate polemic for equality, circling back over and over again to the idea that all men are brothers, and should have equal rights on Earth. Almost 150 years later, it is an idea that remains worth fighting for. 

Chief Joseph
Chief Joseph
Leader of the Nez Perce (1840-1904)
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Love

The simple act of paying attention can take you a long way.

Keanu Reeves

Keanu Reeves was catapulted to fame through his starring roles in action movie franchises such as “The Matrix” and “John Wick,” but it’s his gentle public persona that has earned him a beloved following among fans. The actor has been crowned “The Internet’s Boyfriend” after years of viral moments showing off his good manners, and for the thoughtful responses he often gives during interviews. (Reeves’ profound answer to Stephen Colbert’s question about death left the host speechless.) With his actions and words, Reeves reminds us of a simple wisdom: that by paying close attention to the world around us, we open ourselves up to little discoveries of happiness.

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