Hope

A self that goes on changing is a self that goes on living.

Virginia Woolf

When Virginia Woolf wrote this line, she was not talking about herself, but reflecting on writers before her time. And indeed, this advice can be applied to anyone’s personal life story. It’s human nature to constantly develop our ideas, and by doing so, we’re not losing our integrity but allowing personal growth. Acquiring knowledge that changes our perspectives and learning from our mistakes is what enriches our lives and allows us to move forward.
Virginia Woolf
Virginia Woolf
English writer (1882-1941)
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Wisdom

You can't get away from yourself by moving from one place to another.

Ernest Hemingway

In his 1926 debut novel, “The Sun Also Rises,” Ernest Hemingway explores the lives of young American and British expatriates as they wander through Europe in the mid-1920s. Hemingway himself lived in Paris during this period, and both the characters and the events of the novel are based on his lived experience. In the second chapter, the novel’s narrator and protagonist, Jake Barnes, listens as Robert Cohn, a restless and dissatisfied writer living in Paris, suggests they both go to South America. Cohn believes the change of location would solve his existential problems, but Jake isn’t convinced, telling him, “If you went there the way you feel now it would be exactly the same.” Jake knows Cohn won’t escape his problems by simply moving to a different place, because Cohn’s unhappiness ultimately derives from internal issues that can be resolved only with inner work.

Ernest Hemingway
Ernest Hemingway
Nobel Prize-winning writer (1899-1961)
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Motivation

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.

Anaïs Nin

This insightful observation springs from the diaries of Anaïs Nin, a French-born Cuban American writer whose deeply personal, often erotic writing certainly required a healthy dose of courage. In the June 1941 entry where she wrote these words, she reflects on two different kinds of bravery: the ability to be emotionally open and feel deeply for others, and the courage to hope for a better world amid the horrors of war. But her words ring true in any life circumstances. If you’re willing to face what scares you, it will broaden your world. Those risks are not easy to take, but the reward is a fuller, richer, and more vibrant life.

Anaïs Nin
Anaïs Nin
French American diarist and author (1903-1977)
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Love

Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.

J.M. Barrie

The Scottish author and playwright Sir James Matthew Barrie may be less well known than his fictional character Peter Pan, but if J.M. Barrie could not fly— or stay forever the same age — he brought as much sunshine into the lives of children as did his well-known protagonist. Barrie was inspired to write about the Lost Boys of Neverland by a real family he had befriended, the five Llewelyn Davis boys, who loved to listen to his stories, and laughed at the way he wiggled his ears. When the boys were orphaned, Barrie became their surrogate father. A ray of light to the last, he willed the valuable copyright for Peter Pan to the Great Ormond Street Hospital for children in London. In part due to his gift, the hospital would become one of the world’s largest centers for heart transplants.
J.M. Barrie
J.M. Barrie
Scottish novelist and playwright (1860-1937)
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A revered speaker whom Theodore Roosevelt once invited to the White House, Charles Wagner began as a poor French preacher shunned by the orthodox sect of his church. In his best-known book, “The Simple Life,” he insisted that we control our own emotional fulfillment as much as external circumstances do. Despite the adversity he faced, he found joy by following his internal compass: He started his own church, wrote nearly 30 books, and founded organizations to support the working class. His life is a reminder that your current situation doesn’t have to control you; indeed, your outlook and mindset can change the situation, and cultivate joy even in the most difficult times.
Charles Wagner
Charles Wagner
French pastor (1852-1918)
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Hope

There is always light, if only we're brave enough to see it. If only we're brave enough to be it.

Amanda Gorman

Poet Amanda Gorman took the world by storm when she read her powerful poem “The Hill We Climb,” from which these lines are taken, at the inauguration of U.S. President Joe Biden. Gorman began drafting the poem on January 6, 2021, the day extremists stormed the U.S. Capitol. The event was the culmination of years of increasing political discord, exacerbated in part by the Covid-19 pandemic, which was then approximately one year old. Gorman’s message of unity was welcome. She rose to instant stardom for her poise, her words, her message, her mustard-colored coat and ruby headband. But most meaningful was how her poem balanced two ostensibly incompatible perspectives: an unflinching critique of America’s complicated and sometimes shameful history, and an optimistic celebration, rich with hope for the brighter, kinder, more equitable society we must become.

Amanda Gorman
Amanda Gorman
Poet, activist, and model (1998-present)
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Legendary jazz pianist Thelonious Monk relayed this message, along with other words of wisdom, to saxophonist Steve Lacy when the two played together in 1960. While his list of guidelines, which Lacy transcribed in a notebook titled "T. Monk’s Advice," was initially directed at fellow musicians, messages like these offer universal insight. Monk advocates for authenticity, personal integrity, and belief in oneself as our highest, most defining virtues. A singular force in music and beyond, he led by example on this front. In a world of constant pressure to give into conventions and expectations, he stressed that the greatest gift we have to give is ourselves.

Thelonious Monk
Thelonious Monk
Jazz pianist and composer (1917-1982)
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Motivation

A bird is safe in its nest — but that is not what its wings are made for.

Amit Ray

The book "World Peace: The Voice of a Mountain Bird," where this quote originates, tells the story of a small bird with the potential to change the world. But in order to do so, she has to break out of the same simple routine every bird falls into: eat, drink, raise chicks. It was written by Dr. Amit Ray, a spiritual master who focuses on peace and compassion and has written several books on personal enlightenment. "World Peace" uses metaphor to express a common sentiment in Ray’s work: Just like the bird that sits in its nest, we won’t truly blossom into who we are by staying in a place of safety. Only when we go outside our comfort zone are we able to spread our wings and fly to our full potential.
Amit Ray
Amit Ray
Indian spiritual teacher (1960-present)
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Love

I always deserve the best treatment, because I never put up with any other.

Jane Austen

Sharp, witty, and far ahead of her time, Jane Austen crafted novels that brilliantly satirized the social norms of 19th-century England while giving voice to intelligent, self-assured women. This line is spoken by the character Emma Woodhouse in Austen’s 1815 novel “Emma,” a comedy of manners that centers on a confident young woman with a fondness for matchmaking. Beneath its playful tone, the quote reveals something more serious: a lesson in self-respect. Emma’s declaration isn’t about her being spoiled or entitled; it’s about the high standards she sets for how she expects others to treat her. In our own lives, Emma’s words serve as a reminder that setting boundaries for how we wish to be treated can lead to a stronger sense of self-worth and richer relationships.

Jane Austen
Jane Austen
English author (1775-1817)
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Happiness

Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.

Robert Frost

Robert Frost, one of the most celebrated American poets of the 20th century, is known for writing about the natural world and rural life in ways that reveal deeper truths about the human experience. In this line from his 1938 poem “Happiness Makes Up in Height for What It Lacks in Length,” Frost suggests that even when happiness doesn’t last long, its intensity makes it meaningful. In everyday life, this idea reminds us to savor moments of real joy, no matter how brief. Fulfillment doesn’t always come from things that last — it often comes from being fully present and appreciating what’s right in front of us. Frost’s words offer a comforting truth: Happiness can be fleeting, but in those moments, it can also be profound.

Robert Frost
Robert Frost
Pulitzer Prize-winning poet (1874-1963)
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