Happiness

I would rather have 30 minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.

Robert Harling

Robert Harling’s play and subsequent 1989 film “Steel Magnolias” focuses on a group of women living in a small town in the American South. One of them is Shelby (played by Julia Roberts in the movie), a type 1 diabetic whose condition makes childbearing dangerous. Determined to be a mother, she gets pregnant anyway. When her own mother (Sally Field) protests, she responds with these words above, choosing passing joy over what she worries will be an empty life. Not all our decisions may be as high-stakes as Shelby’s, but her intention serves as a worthy guide: We should always reach for what brings us fulfillment and wonder, regardless of the risk.

Robert Harling
Robert Harling
Writer, producer, and director (1951-present)
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Motivation

Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.

Bertrand Russell

One of the most prominent intellectuals of the 20th century, Bertrand Russell was a polymath who believed that ideas could change the world. In addition to being a mathematician, philosopher, and preeminent logician, he was also a humanist and a pacifist whose ideas at times proved controversial — his pacifism during World War I, for instance, earned him a six-month spell in prison. In a December 1951 issue of “The New York Times Magazine,” Russell published his “ten commandments” of critical thinking, including the one featured here. He reminds us that although our thoughts and ideas may not be accepted at first, every great thought and idea once had to face its share of skepticism and naysayers.  

Bertrand Russell
Bertrand Russell
English philosopher, logician, and mathematician (1872-1970)
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This simple truism comes from the poem “The Last Saturday in Ulster,” written by Irish writer Nick Laird, the husband of celebrated English novelist Zadie Smith. Smith’s acclaimed third novel, 2005’s “On Beauty,” opens with this quote, which suggests that how we spend our time is one of the most powerful ways we can show our love. Its inclusion in the novel is a beautiful expression of love itself: Smith writes in the book’s acknowledgements, "It's Nick who knows that 'time is how you spend your love,' and that's why this book is dedicated to him, as is my life."

Nick Laird
Nick Laird
Northern Irish novelist and poet (1975-present)
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Wisdom

Change — real change — comes from the inside out.

Stephen Covey

Stephen Covey’s book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” was first published in 1989 and has sold more than 40 million copies worldwide. This quote is found near the end of the book in a section where Covey ruminates on change. Self-growth, he suggests, comes from addressing “the fundamental, essential paradigms which give definition to our character and create the lens through which we see the world.” We cannot change our lives in any meaningful way without first looking deeply within ourselves. 

Stephen Covey
Stephen Covey
Motivational author and educator (1932-2012)
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With this optimistic sentiment, Swedish diplomat Alva Myrdal assures us that even in the face of extreme difficulty, resilience and tenacity are innate qualities of the human spirit. Myrdal was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1982 for her distinguished work with the nuclear disarmament movement, which sought to convince the United States and Soviet Union to abandon their nuclear weapons during the Cold War. Her work and words show that it is always possible for hope, virtue, and peace to triumph.

Alva Myrdal
Alva Myrdal
Swedish Nobel Prize-winning sociologist and diplomat (1902-1986)
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Happiness

Success isn’t about how your life looks to others; it’s about how it feels to you.

Michelle Obama

In a 2012 commencement speech at Oregon State University, Michelle Obama shared several unforgettable nuggets of wisdom, one of which was that true success is measured not by external appearances, but rather by our own internal sense of fulfillment. Of course, in a world of constant comparison, that’s easier said than done. But the then-first lady offered a tip on how to find the “right” kind of success: by reflecting on what it is that truly sparks our joy and pursuing that authentically. “You will never be happy plodding through someone else’s idea of success,” she said. “Success is only meaningful — and enjoyable — if it feels like your own.”
Michelle Obama
Michelle Obama
Former U.S. first lady (1964-present)
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Motivation

Live for each second without hesitation.

Elton John

This motivating sentiment comes from Elton John’s 1983 hit “I Guess That’s Why They Call It the Blues,” co-written by the singer’s longtime lyricist, Bernie Taupin. The songwriting duo certainly hasn’t wasted any time in their decades-long career. John is one of the bestselling artists of all time, with more than 300 million records sold worldwide across an impressive 31 albums — including seven consecutive No. 1 albums in the U.S. Today, at 79, the Rocket Man is still going strong, though he officially retired from touring in 2023. As he explained to CBS News, “I want to do something different with the rest of my life.”
Elton John
Elton John
British singer-songwriter and pianist (1947-present)
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Love

Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.

Oprah Winfrey

Famous around the world for her inspiring life story and her particular ability to encourage, uplift, and empathize with others, Oprah Winfrey reveals here that one of the secrets to a happy life is the company we keep. Life is too short to waste our energy on people who make us feel small or unloved, or introduce negativity to our lives. Instead, Winfrey recommends surrounding ourselves with a close circle of people who understand and appreciate us for who we are, and will cheer us on as we journey through life.

Oprah Winfrey
Oprah Winfrey
TV host, producer, and actress (1954-present)
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Glamorous and beautiful, Marlene Dietrich was an actress and singer known for her exquisite fashion sense, diverse acting roles, and scandalous personal life. She was marketed as a provocative femme fatale, but behind the myth was the real Dietrich — free-spirited, outspoken, and determined to live life on her own terms. Dietrich spent her life defying convention and tradition, and attracting critics as well as fans. Her quote is a reminder that courage and grace are a powerful combination of traits — especially in a world that may judge us for being true to ourselves.

Marlene Dietrich
Marlene Dietrich
German American actress and singer (1901-1992)
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Hope

I believe in some blending of hope and sunshine sweetening the worst lots.

Charlotte Brontë

Charlotte Brontë’s semi-autobiographical novel “Villette” (1853) is laden with themes of loneliness and grief. As its protagonist Lucy Snowe navigates personal hardships — the loss of family and friends, isolation in a new place, and heartbreak — she finds herself tempted to despair. Like Snowe, Brontë experienced her own familial losses and arduous experiences. And while this introspective and emotionally raw novel doesn’t deliver an idealized happy ending, it offers its own kind of resolve: a bittersweet recognition that even the darkest times are often illuminated by glimpses of light, both those we hold inside ourselves and those the world shows us if we remain open to seeing them.

Charlotte Brontë
Charlotte Brontë
Author and poet (1816-1855)
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