Love

The opposite of love is fear, not hate.

Yoko Ono

In 2010, Yoko Ono posted this short message on social media, offering an interesting shift in perspective. Ono, an avant-garde artist, musician, and activist, is known for challenging traditional norms and widely held beliefs. We typically consider hate to be the opposite of love, but from Ono’s point of view, fear is the truer opposite because it’s the emotion that can prevent us from loving. This dichotomy between love and fear is something Ono has previously mentioned as existing in her own life. She wrote on her website, “In a day, sometimes I feel so much love for the world, I think my heart is bursting. Sometimes, I feel so scared, I want to shrink myself even further.”

Yoko Ono
Yoko Ono
Artist and peace activist (1933-present)
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Happiness

I'm afraid I'm an incorrigible life-lover, life-wonderer, and adventurer.

Edith Wharton

Most people recognize Edith Wharton’s name from her enduring works of fiction, including her novels “The Age of Innocence” (1920) and “Ethan Frome” (1911). But many would be surprised to learn that the accomplished author was also a veritable Renaissance woman with myriad passions and talents. Throughout her life, and despite the restrictions imposed on women at that time, she made a name for herself as an interior decorator, garden designer, travel writer, war journalist, and the first woman to win a Pulitzer Prize. In a letter to a friend just before her death in 1937, Wharton wrote, “I wish I knew what people meant when they say they find ‘emptiness’ in this wonderful adventure of living.”
Edith Wharton
Edith Wharton
Pulitzer Prize-winning author (1862-1937)
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Celebrated writer Ursula K. Le Guin was best known for her science fiction novels, such as the widely acclaimed “Earthsea” series in which this quote appears. Le Guin believed that the imagination was an excellent place to explore morality and contemplate the consequences of potential actions, and she used science fiction and fantasy to inspire reflection and comment on the world at large. In doing so, Le Guin distinguished herself as one of the few science fiction authors ever to be nominated for a Pulitzer Prize. 

Ursula K. Le Guin
Ursula K. Le Guin
Science fiction author (1929-2018)
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Wisdom

Success is like failure ... It's what you do with it, not how you achieve it.

Stephen Sondheim

Stephen Sondheim was an award-winning composer and lyricist known for his contributions to some of the greatest works in the American musical theater canon, including “West Side Story” and “Into the Woods.” Alongside librettist George Furth, Sondheim wrote the music and lyrics for the 1981 musical “Merrily We Roll Along,” which features this line from the ensemble number “It’s a Hit.” The show follows the lives of three friends — a composer, a lyricist, and a journalist — in reverse chronological order from their weary middle-aged selves to the most promising days of their youth. While “It’s a Hit” takes place after the characters have found theatrical success, in reality, “Merrily” was considered a critical failure compared to Sondheim’s more significant works. But as this lyric suggests, success and failure are two sides of the same coin; it’s the action you take afterward that truly counts. 

Stephen Sondheim
Stephen Sondheim
Pulitzer Prize-winning composer and lyricist (1930-2021)
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Motivation

We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.

Carlos Castaneda

Considered a New Age icon, anthropologist Carlos Castaneda authored a series of books that explored the topics of introspection and transformation. Here, he suggests that resilience and victimhood both require effort — but only one leads to personal growth. Our mindset, Castaneda believed, is not a passive state of being; it’s an active choice we make every day. The same energy we spend on worrying or doubting ourselves can be redirected toward building up our self-love and inner strength. It’s not about how hard we work but where we focus those efforts.

Carlos Castaneda
Carlos Castaneda
Anthropologist and writer (1925-1998)
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Love

The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.

Peter Drucker

Sometimes called “the inventor of modern management,” prominent Austrian American business consultant Peter Drucker advised countless key figures of the American economy throughout the last half of the 20th century. His groundbreaking philosophy advanced the idea that business could be both profitable and socially responsible, and his teachings have helped revolutionize the landscape and practice of modern business management. At the forefront of Drucker’s principles was the understanding that the business world is driven by people — and that the key to success is understanding those people. In a 1989 interview with Bill Moyers, Drucker explained that communication is about more than just applying our own significance to someone else’s words; it’s about working to understand their unique perspective and priorities. Drucker’s belief is a reminder that the willingness to observe and appreciate our differences can go a long way toward fostering mutual understanding and support.
Peter Drucker
Peter Drucker
Austrian American consultant, educator, and author (1909-2005)
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Happiness

You have to pick the places you don't walk away from.

Joan Didion

Author Joan Didion was known for her perceptive prose and unflinching insight into the depth of the human experience. This quote, from her 1977 novel “A Book of Common Prayer,” reflects her lifelong interest in how people seek meaning in a world that rarely seems to make sense. The novel explores themes of exile, isolation, loss of innocence, and the consequences of our choices — topics Didion often examines in both her fiction and nonfiction.

Her characters frequently face uncertainty and upheaval, yet this quote underscores the importance of remaining committed to the places, people, or principles that matter most to us. When we feel ourselves drifting from our priorities, Didion invites us to consider what anchors us and to hold fast to it.”

Joan Didion
Joan Didion
Writer and journalist (1934-2021)
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Hope

Don't ever give up on life. Life can be so beautiful, especially after you've spent a lot of time with it.

Yoko Ono

Yoko Ono has long used her work to explore resilience, love, and the power of perception. In her song “Unun. To” from the 2009 album “Between My Head and the Sky,” she offers a profound reminder that life is worth living, no matter what.

Having endured deep personal loss and the weight of public scrutiny, Ono speaks from a place of hard-earned wisdom. Her words suggest that life’s meaning and purpose don’t always come easily — they’re things we grow into, often through hardship. The longer we stay with life, the more we learn to recognize its quiet rewards and see its beauty. Her message encourages patience and faith in moments when everything feels heavy or uncertain.

Yoko Ono
Yoko Ono
Artist and peace activist (1933-present)
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Henry Wadsworth Longfellow was a prolific 19th-century scholar and writer, and the first American to be honored in Poets’ Corner at London’s Westminster Abbey. Much of his work was influenced by Romanticism, a literary movement that emphasized the natural world and human emotion. His narrative poem “The Birds of Killingworth,” in which this quote appears, is no exception. Longfellow’s gentle, simple writing shines through in this line, reminding us to allow circumstances outside our control to play out. Sometimes, the wisest thing to do is nothing at all.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Poet and educator (1807-1882)
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Motivation

This stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted, and shaky — that's called liberation.

Pema Chödrön

Pema Chödrön lived out the advice she gives here. She was born Deirdre Blomfield-Brown in 1936 in New York City, and after attending university, becoming a schoolteacher, and raising two children, she began studying Tibetan Buddhism. She was fully ordained in 1981, and has since been a key figure in establishing the Buddhist monastic tradition in the West. She wrote several books over several decades, sharing the wisdom and perspective of her studies. In 2006, at the age of 70, she established the Pema Chödrön Foundation to carry on her work as she stepped back to spend more time in silent contemplation.  

Pema Chödrön
Pema Chödrön
Buddhist nun and teacher (1936-present)
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