Author Madeleine L’Engle continues to find new readers every day with her enduringly popular “A Wrinkle in Time” series, in addition to her other young adult books, nonfiction writing, and poetry. The line above comes from her 1972 essay, “Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art,” following this comforting sentiment: “It is chastening to realize that those who have no physical flaw, who move through life in step with their peers, who are bright and beautiful, seldom become artists.” Although L’Engle’s characters go through grief and loss, they are able to find more strength by connecting with others through their pain. L’Engle’s work has endured because she taps into the essential need we all have to feel less alone.
Madeleine L'Engle
Madeleine L'Engle
Author (1918-2007)
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Albert Einstein is undoubtedly one of the most brilliant scientific minds of all time, but besides being a genius, he was also something of a rebel. This rebellious streak gave him a certain intellectual edge, and he was quick to critique widely accepted scientific dogma as well as social trends and cultural beliefs. This critical thinking can be seen in this comment Einstein made about standardization (in a cultural rather than scientific context) in a 1929 interview with “The Saturday Evening Post.” The quote continues, “I believe in standardizing automobiles. I do not believe in standardizing human beings.” Einstein often emphasized individuality, as seen in another quote from the famed scientist: “We must not only learn to tolerate our differences. We must welcome them as the richness and diversity which can lead to true intelligence.”

Albert Einstein
Albert Einstein
Nobel Prize-winning physicist (1879-1955)
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Motivation

We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.

Carlos Castaneda

Considered a New Age icon, anthropologist Carlos Castaneda authored a series of books that explored the topics of introspection and transformation. Here, he suggests that resilience and victimhood both require effort — but only one leads to personal growth. Our mindset, Castaneda believed, is not a passive state of being; it’s an active choice we make every day. The same energy we spend on worrying or doubting ourselves can be redirected toward building up our self-love and inner strength. It’s not about how hard we work but where we focus those efforts.

Carlos Castaneda
Carlos Castaneda
Anthropologist and writer (1925-1998)
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In his book “True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart,” the Vietnamese monk Thích Nhất Hạnh elaborated on the brahmavihārās, a series of four virtues and corresponding meditation practices made to cultivate them. Of the first — maitri, or loving-kindness — Thích Nhất Hạnh wrote that, because “understanding is the essence of love,” one must practice being attentive, looking deeply, and understanding one’s beloved. The second virtue is karuna, or compassion, which involves not just the desire to ease another’s pain, but the ability to do so. Third, mudita roughly translates to empathetic joy: “If there is not joy in love,” Thích Nhất Hạnh wrote, “it is not true love.” Of the fourth, upeksha, or equanimity, he observed, “In true love, you attain freedom. When you love, you bring freedom.”
Thích Nhất Hạnh
Thích Nhất Hạnh
Vietnamese Buddhist monk (1926-2022)
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Happiness

A genuinely happy person is one who has rendered others happy.

Daisaku Ikeda

Buddhist philosopher Daisaku Ikeda wrote this insightful look at the nature of happiness in his 2017 essay collection, “Hope Is a Decision.” Ikeda spent 50 years writing the essays in the book. They all relate in some form to the nature of hope, and how we can take it upon ourselves to maintain it, even during tumultuous times. Consider it a self-fulfilling prophecy: If you choose to be hopeful, you will be. Just like if you choose to try and make others happy, it will increase your own happiness. And, as Ikeda also notes in his essay, those choices will “illuminate our final years with dignity.”
Daisaku Ikeda
Daisaku Ikeda
Japanese Buddhist philosopher (1928-2023)
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Hope

I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.

J.R.R. Tolkien

J.R.R. Tolkien used myth and language not just to build a fantasy world, but also to explore deeply human truths about love, loss, and courage. This line appears near the end of “The Return of the King,” the final book in “The Lord of the Rings” trilogy, as Gandalf bids a gentle farewell to his friends. Tolkien acknowledges the value of sorrow and suggests tears are not a sign of weakness but a reflection of meaningful connection. In our own lives, this sentiment invites us to honor our grief rather than push it aside. Not all pain is harmful — sometimes it signifies the depth of what we’ve cherished.

J.R.R. Tolkien
J.R.R. Tolkien
English writer and scholar (1892-1973)
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It’s a fact of life that the truth can hurt, as David Foster Wallace expresses in this line from his epic 1996 novel “Infinite Jest.” In this philosophical comic novel, Wallace explores our relationship with entertainment, which can serve as a distraction from the hard realities of life. Finding out the truth — about ourselves, others, or our relationships — can be devastating at first, but it also provides a kind of hopeful freedom. When we face and accept the truth, we’re able to see more clearly, and can move forward stronger than before.
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David Foster Wallace
Author (1962-2008)
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Motivation

My head is bursting with the joy of the unknown.

Rumi

Rumi’s poetry often reads like a roadmap to a rich interior life, paving a path to finding joy in sorrow, clarity in confusion, and, in this quote, optimism in uncertainty. Born in the 13th century in present-day Afghanistan, the spiritual influencer was a preeminent figure in Sufi mysticism. His vast body of work blended profound spirituality with practical wisdom, and though most of it was originally composed in Persian, its translations have traversed cultures and centuries. Here, Rumi extolls the unknown not as something to fear, but as something alive with possibility. The more we let go of control, the more space we make for discovery, transformation, and connection. Uncertainty is a constant part of life, so it’s best to embrace it with awe and wonder, allowing it to be a guide instead of a roadblock.

Rumi
Rumi
Persian poet and mystic (1207–1273)
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The Jamaican American author Charmaine Wilkerson wrote her 2022 debut novel “Black Cake” to highlight the importance of food in storytelling and heritage. The book became a “New York Times” bestseller, earning acclaim for its thoughtful, multigenerational exploration of family, identity, and cultural legacy. This quote from the novel appears when the character Eleanor Bennett encourages her daughter, Benny, to trust herself — even when she’s uncertain about her choices. Eleanor’s advice is a reminder that while it’s natural to second-guess our decisions and actions, it’s crucial to have confidence in our instincts and abilities. In the context of our own lives, this insight encourages us to be introspective and self-aware, without losing faith in who we are and what we’re capable of.

Charmaine Wilkerson
Charmaine Wilkerson
Jamaican American journalist and author (Unknown-present)
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Happiness

Stay close to any sounds that make you glad you are alive.

Hafez

Not much is known about the life of Hafez, a 14th-century poet from Persia. But it’s thought that he was first drawn to the power of words upon hearing his father recite passages from the Quran. A celebrated court poet and lifelong teacher, Hafez specialized in ghazals, a form of love poem that expresses pain or loss, as well as the tender love entwined with it. His poems now serve as proverbs, offering wisdom and life lessons. His advice here acts as a lighthouse to each of us: We are most fulfilled when we follow the things that make us feel fully alive.

Hafez
Hafez
Persian lyric poet (c. 1325-c. 1390)
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