Love

You don’t measure love in time. You measure love in transformation.

Jeff Brown

Author Jeff Brown's work focuses on personal growth, spiritual development, and the intersection of spirituality and social justice. He’s known for his down-to-earth approach and his ability to bridge the gap between spirituality and everyday life. Brown is also a popular speaker and workshop facilitator, and his work has gained a wide following in the spiritual and self-help communities. This quote reminds us that love allows us room to evolve, and we can look to that evolution as proof of the strength of our bonds.

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Henry David Thoreau spent two years living in a remote cabin on Walden Pond in Massachusetts, an experience that birthed his celebrated memoir, "Walden." In that time, he gave up luxuries and aesthetics, believing it was a more honorable challenge to redefine the meaning of a good life. He wrote in "Walden" about the importance of being "awake" through life — to live deliberately and enjoy the essential and divine elements of being alive. "I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life," he wrote, adding, "I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavor … to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look." To him, shaping your outlook on life was the highest art of all.

Henry David Thoreau
Henry David Thoreau
Writer, philosopher, and naturalist (1817-1862)
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Octavio Paz, one of the most influential poets in the world, came from humble beginnings. He began publishing his work as a teenager and released his first poetry collection before the age of 20. His hard work earned him an esteemed career; he traveled the world as a diplomat and writer, becoming known internationally for his poems and essays and winning the Nobel Prize in literature in 1990. Here, his charge to “deserve your dream” reminds us that success is measured not just in what we achieve, but in who we are. When we know we’ve lived with integrity, reaching our goals is that much sweeter.

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Wisdom

We all have different gifts, so we all have different ways of saying to the world who we are.

Fred Rogers

As the host and creator of the beloved children’s show “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood,” Fred Rogers tackled important topics such as friendship, expressing difficult emotions, and being part of a community. One of his most persistent messages was that being different is a gift, not something to be afraid of. He made waves at the height of the civil rights movement when, during one 1969 episode, he and Officer Clemmons (a character played by Francois Clemmons, a Black and gay actor) soaked their feet in the same kiddie pool, underlining their friendship despite differing backgrounds. Rogers’ legacy offers a reminder to the child in all of us that our individuality is something to be celebrated, not tamped down.

Fred Rogers
Fred Rogers
Television host (1928-2003)
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Wisdom

Right actions for the future are the best apologies for wrong ones in the past.

Tryon Edwards

American theologian and writer Tryon Edwards was a prominent religious figure, serving as a pastor and professor of theology. He published several books on theology, philosophy, and literary criticism and is perhaps best known for compiling his great-grandfather's writings in "The Works of Jonathan Edwards," which helped preserve and promote the legacy of his forefather's influential theological ideas as a prominent figure of the American Enlightenment.

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Love

Don’t be insecure if your heart is pure.

Lady Gaga

In a crowded field, Lady Gaga is one of the biggest pop superstars of the past decade-plus, and a huge part of that fame comes from her ability to inspire self-worth through her lyrics. That’s just what she does in her song “Bad Kids” (co-written by Lady Gaga, Fernando Garibay, and Jeppe “Senior” Laursen), off the empowering, anthemic 2011 album “Born This Way.” This song was inspired by the many stories Gaga heard from fans while touring — anecdotes about being judged for one's appearance, dealing with divorcing parents, and more. The song is dedicated to those who have been through hardships but remain good-hearted in the end. “I wanted a song to tribute their stories,” Gaga tweeted. “I’m a Bad Kid, too.”

Lady Gaga
Lady Gaga
Singer-songwriter and actress (1986-present)
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Love

I dreamed I called you on the telephone to say: Be kinder to yourself.

Adrienne Rich

Adrienne Rich was a poet and essayist whose literary career spanned seven decades. Her work garnered numerous accolades, including the National Book Award for poetry, and helped establish her reputation as one of the founding mothers of the second-wave feminist movement. In her writing, Rich frequently spoke to what it means to be a woman and a mother in a patriarchal society. In her 1972 poem “For the Dead,” she wrote of dreaming about a phone call in which she asked the recipient to be kinder to themself. She followed this reflection by writing, “The waste of my love goes on this way / trying to save you from yourself.” While Rich may have had her late husband in mind as she wrote those bittersweet words, they’re a reminder to the living that we must extend the same compassion, empathy, and grace to ourselves as we do for others.

Adrienne Rich
Adrienne Rich
Poet and feminist (1929-2012)
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Wisdom

Wash away your old opinions to let new ideas in.

Zhu Xi

Zhu Xi was a Chinese philosopher who lived from 1130 to 1200, during the Song dynasty. A learned man, he was a historian, poet, skilled calligrapher, and astute politician — although his frank and outspoken opinions and his staunch anti-corruption ideals often saw him dismissed from court or kept a safe distance from the capital. Zhu is most associated with the development of Neo-Confucianism, influenced by the earlier teachings of the Chinese philosopher Confucius. One of Zhu’s key principles — and something he often repeated to his students — was the importance of keeping an open mind. His philosophy emphasized logic and consistency, but if the mind was closed to new ideas, it would be impossible for any student to fully realize their abilities. 

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Meditation guru Sharon Salzberg shared this important message as the finishing remark to her followers after a monthlong meditation challenge in 2013. She recognized that meditation — like life — is a challenge, but we don’t need to be perfect on the first try. We can fail, and then learn from our mistakes. As long as we’re gentle with ourselves, we can always start over.

Sharon Salzberg
Sharon Salzberg
Author and meditation pioneer (1952-present)
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Love

Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread.

Ursula K. Le Guin

Ursula K. Le Guin is best known as a speculative fiction writer, specializing primarily in the genres of science fiction and fantasy, for which she won multiple Hugo and Nebula awards. Her work transcends simple classification in the same way as that of authors such as George Orwell, who was one of Le Guin’s major influences. She often upended fantasy and sci-fi tropes, with characters offering nontraditional perspectives on race and gender and themes covering everything from politics to sexuality to moral development. The above quote comes from Le Guin’s 1971 novel The Lathe of Heaven, in which the protagonist’s dreams alter past and present reality — and in which love isn’t guaranteed to last forever, but instead must be “remade all the time, made new.” 

Ursula K. Le Guin
Ursula K. Le Guin
Science fiction author (1929-2018)
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